So..once you actually make that decision to do the whole online thing, you got quite a few things you gotta think about. It’s never as easy as it looks.
While there’s so many sites out there, you need to find one that works for you. Most of them are free -at first. Then you gotta pay if you want to see who ‘likes’ you, or with some sites who sends you messages, who ‘favorites’ you and so on. And this thing can get expensive if you actually want some interaction with potential partners.
As a women all you have to do is fill out these profiles, upload one or two pictures and then u can technically sit back and wait. Why? Cause I will promise you it so t take more than 5 minutes and your phone will go crazy if you opted for notifications lol.
I must warn you though, you’ll get all kinds of messages; from funny lines like “are you my appendix? Cause I don’t know what to do with you!” (Actual stuff I had to deal with) to ‘I just want sex’. Every here and there you actually get a text from a genuine guy and start talking a bit more. And then it’s up to you to be honest. You always need to watch out tho that this doesn’t happen tho:
And while I think that overall this whole online thing is too much stress we put ourself under cause we want to find that someone special, the one for us, some people actually are lucky enough to really find the one while on one of these sites. And that makes me believe that somewhere out there is even the one for me. Maybe I’m not ready to meet him yet, maybe God thinks he’s not ready for me yet, but I have faith that one day I will find him, or he’ll find me. Until then I do me though, work on myself, raise me kids to be happy people and be there for the friends that are my family and make my life a better one….